JamesConeZone [they/them]

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Cake day: August 6th, 2020

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  • I banned my kid from Roblox… what next?

    I would just talk to your kid and listen to his feelings and wants. What does he enjoy about Roblox? Can he find that enjoyment with some other games? Does he understand that its not a punishment, e.g. it’s not anything that he did and that you aren’t blaming him? Sure, you can suggest a few alternatives and they might take and be fun, but you’ll need to be attuned to his feelings around what he might see as a punishment for something that he did so that he doesn’t internalize it and hurt the relationship you have with him.



  • Sorry to disappoint. I don’t have hard opinions about anarchists vs MLs. I generally think Engels was more convincing on authority, but I’m not well read enough to have a formed opinion on it and haven’t read anything from the last decade or so. I especially don’t think the things that you’re asking here because I didn’t write the statement, Parenti did, and he did so for rhetorical effect against western leftists putting ideology over AES. I’m happy to receive some recs I can follow up on.



  • The pure (libertarian) socialists’ ideological anticipations remain untainted by existing practice. They do not explain how the manifold functions of a revolutionary society would be organized, how external attack and internal sabotage would be thwarted, how bureaucracy would be avoided, scarce resources allocated, policy differences settled, priorities set, and production and distribution conducted. Instead, they offer vague statements about how the workers themselves will directly own and control the means of production and will arrive at their own solutions through creative struggle. No surprise then that the pure socialists support every revolution except the ones that succeed.



  • Americans pay close to 20% of their income for childcare which the richest country in the history of the world chooses not to pay for.

    For Americans, giving birth costs thousands of dollars for the hospital visit if nothing goes wrong, nevermind the OB visits or testing necessary.

    Again in America, most people have no maternal/paternal leave. This is legislative punishment. Removing productivity from the economy must be punished and barriers to people having kids must be put up. Children cannot contribute to the economy, so are treated as burdens and a nuisance. Children are not allowed to interact in most of society because they are “loud and obnoxious” and are expected to be neither seen nor heard. When they are, parents are shamed by people like you.

    And then there’s little shits like those in this thread who sneer at the very idea of kids being around them.

    ETA: for comparison, communist East Germany had

    • 6 months of paid maternity leave while pregnant
    • 1,000 marks up front for your kid (about a month’s wages)
    • 1 year of paid maternity leave after birth of child
    • Job guarantee after that time away
    • 23 days PTO annually to care for sick children. Shift workers got additional 10 days
    • Guaranteed free childcare for 3-6 yr olds and for those under 3 if you qualified

    And they had no where near the wealth or resources that the USA does. This was in the 80s during heavy political pressure too!