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  • dvoraqs@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldoh he mad
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    10 days ago

    The context as far as this meme goes is that he’s mad and showing it physically. Whatever the reason is doesn’t matter because we subvert it with the other text.

    This is the narrative being established: We say he’s chosen to be on a healing journey, and he might be learning the hard way what that looks like, going through the stages of healing, where anger is one of them. But that’s not it yet, we also say he thought the process would be predictable, so he’s actually either mad that isn’t or is mad that we are noticing him having trouble with this. He would be even more mad to learn that this is a meme being shared on the internet and madder still that this whole narrative came up around it that could be true or entirely made up.


  • dvoraqs@lemmy.worldtoPolitical Memes@lemmy.worldEvery time...
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    15 days ago

    My sources say you can in all 50 states by listing a park, shelter, or other place where you spend time as your residence and shelter, church, etc as your mailing address. You should be able to go to a polling location and get a ballot even if you don’t receive one in the mail.

    Just saying that I think there are options for you next time if you find yourself in the same situation. You are not without some power.





  • I think you’re being too strict with your definition of an identity because it is not just one thing. Identities are multi-faceted and fluid. I think that you ignore an important part of the picture when you ignore perceptions of you as part of your identity. They add to a conceptual cloud around you that is you and how you come across to others. I rather like to avoid oversimplification which I feel you are falling for, although I still do believe that one’s own identity is most important of those and ought to be respected by others.

    Have you seen the Clayton Biggsby sketch on the Chappelle show with the blind black white supremacist? He had no knowledge of being black, but I think most people would still argue that it formed a major part of his identity regardless of his own concept of himself.

    To nuance your previous point, being misgendered is a negative experience because that person’s “concept of you” does not agree with yours, becoming a point of conflict between you two and even inside yourself, not necessarily because they are wrong (although you are free to have that opinion). Sometimes people close to you will know you better than you know yourself.









  • Resigning is a way to call attention to the problem while you still have most of your credibility. There would be a smear campaign against you, but the alternative situation might be after getting fired for cause, where it would be easier to believe that you are just making excuses to save face. Especially if you are already demoralized and don’t have the energy to make a stand, you may start feeding the idea that you are just unfit for the job and lose support internally.

    It also adds a bit of chaos into the organization that needs to replace you and may not have somebody prepared to step into a position haunted by this politicized issue and rocky transition. It does happen because organizations are made of limited and discrete people, but it is easy to be afraid of the infinite number of sycophants that must be ready to take their place.

    It might be a tactic that is useful in limited situations, but I agree in general that we want rusty cogs slowing down the fascist machine.




  • I can sort of see that the corner of the frames is a little far from his face, but the arm of the glasses is still flush with his ear and the side of his face. I still don’t believe that the snail is on top of his frames because there isn’t a gap or enough volume to show it. His frames disappear at the nose bridge.



  • There is a codependency between urban and rural areas that mean that one would not work as well without the other, so I hope we can all learn to be accepting of one another.

    Urban centralization creates a lot of economic demand with high populations and benefits from efficiencies of scale, but has a higher cost to use land.

    Rural areas are lower cost, and the expansive areas have lots of natural resources that can be extracted or be used to farm.

    Economically, people may be pushed out of cities either because of the basic cost or cost of the area that people want for themselves, so I think it makes sense why they would grow to resent the cities, disregarding cultural differences.

    I see you reacting to that perceived hostility as a second or third order effect, but all that does it create a deeper problem.