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  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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    2か月前

    I automatically block communities that put requirements like that on participation. If they don’t want me interacting with it, I don’t want to even see it. I also don’t think it’s appropriate for a publicly open forum. Go make your own private thing somewhere if you want to immediately start off as an echo chamber.

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      2か月前

      I think you just described two things working almost exactly as designed.

      You should use block liberally to curate your feed.

      Similarly, communities should have whatever rules make sense for them. If that keeps the community small, that might be the desired outcome for them.

      I think blocking was the right call here.

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      2か月前

      How are new women to find it if it never appears in All? Feel free to block/remove it, just as you would any niches that don’t interest you and clog up your feed. Or just scroll past, like I do for Linux and gaming and moe.

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          2か月前

          Imagine every public linux forum overrun by 90% Windows user,s and you might just begin to understand.

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          2か月前

          Agreed, it’s just a lot of paying attention to the instance names and scrolling past. Usually the post title is a clue as well, but occasionally something sounds like something else. I don’t want to block the whole term, because it might be a small part of some post I’d otherwise be interested in. In any case, I know better than to drop comments in a topic that’s outside my experience.

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      2か月前

      I didn’t want to see your comment, but that won’t stop me from complaining about having to see your comment anyway.

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      2か月前

      I mean this very kindly but “i don’t think it’s appropriate” is never a good reason to dictate the actions of others.

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      2か月前

      Yeah, unfortunately I did the same after I got warned off for a perfectly fine interaction.

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        2か月前

        That’s okay. I mean, if you want to open it up again and read it to get a perspective on how women speak when they’re in their own space, nobody minds. But if you don’t want it cropping up in your feed, that’s cool. Obviously the reason it shows up in All is so new women can find it. Being reminded not to comment is just that, a reminder of the rules, and not necessarily a criticism of the content. If women didn’t face so much denial of their voices it wouldn’t be necessary.

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      2か月前

      Often find yourself inside many stores you find irrelevant when strolling around town? All those unlocked doors must be such temptation.