For those out of the loop, WomensStuff has a women-only rule, where men are respectfully asked to not reply to posts.

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      no community is blocking women from posting/commenting tho, I too like comparing apples to oranges, great fruit, both make juice

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      I just think of Dull Mens Club and how they allow anyone to post there.

      The problem with WomensStuff is how heavy handed they are with not allowing anyone who isn’t specific enough to post and comment there. Posting, I totally understand. Removing comments the way they do just rubs me so wrong. It’s just not a good look.

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        Comments are the primary form of interaction on link aggregation sites. Most mod actions are performed against comments, not posts. The other way makes more sense to me (men could post but not comment), but who would want to post and then be unable to respond?

        I feel that women should have an easily discovered place where they can talk about shit that is difficult to talk about online. Because a minority of men make that difficult (I want to believe it is a minority, at least), it makes sense for the community to only be for women. Having the community show up in the All feed is the very best way to make it discoverable. Having it be a private community would vastly limit the accessibility for women who have just joined the fediverse.

        Like, if it’s that important, there could be a !WomensStuffOpen that mirrors the other community but is open to comments from men. That feels fair and inclusive without taking away from women having a space for themselves.

        EDIT: Although it would probably be ideal to only mirror the posts and not the comments. mirroring individual comments would open people up to harassment.

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          See, I feel like everyone isn’t actually paying attention to what I am saying.

          What I am saying is that these types of communities, where only one group can participate in actual conversation, IS an echo chamber.

          It’s like if there was a misogynistic community, where only the most vile of men would want to be, where they only hear bad things about women and say bad things about women.

          I’m almost certain that that would be frowned upon by normal men/women/people.

          Andrew Tate is a very well known douchebag who literally operates in and on an echo chamber…

          Really, it’s just not a good look and that’s all I really have to say. Sorry if it rubbed you the wrong way (not just you, in general) but I will stand by what I said and this: echo chambers, where only one group can initiate and interact, are kind of ruining the whole reason a lot of us left Reddit.