Older guy here.
I have always avoided dating women who would plaster shit all over their faces. I’d rather see those pores, freckles (actually I’m sucker for freckles), etc. I do like a bit of eye liner or shadows (or whatever it’s called) lipstick/gloss, mascara. Accents, if you will. But someone with their faces under a coat of primer, paint, and lacquer, like a car?
Also, I want to have a good idea of what they’ll look like in the morning.
Protip: dont judge women by how they choose to present themselves. Its sexist.
I’m not judging women, I’m drawing red lines. I’m stating my preferences in dating situations. I also don’t like unkempt women for dating purposes, or overly tattooed, or too far right wing, or religious zealots, etc…
I imagine you have some standards?
But someone with their faces under a coat of primer, paint, and lacquer, like a car?
sounds very judgemental to me…
Of course it is judging, everyone judges. You are doing so right now with those comments.
People are allowed to have preferences. And too much make-up is indicative of having a fake personality. So I stay clear of those kinds of people as well.
Of course I’m judgemental about someone spewing sexist tropes, thats different from judging how someone chooses to present themselves.