• Galactose@sopuli.xyz
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    1 day ago

    Why shouldn’t he ??? women came out in droves during men’s mental health awareness day & to demonize it & no serious pushback was given.

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      I don’t know where you hang out, but I didn’t see that at all, that’s really unfortunate you experienced that. Where did you see people demonizing it? I’d like to avoid those places.

      Men’s mental health is just as important as anyone else’s. Maybe even more so right now, as a group, many seem to be in crisis.

      Corpos have targeted women’s insecurities for over a century to sell their ideas/products. They’ve gotten very good in recent decades capitlizing on this for men. It’s culture war bullshit so they can sell you fascism.

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          Twitter, Reddit, Facebook, mainstream news.

          So from social media, which amplifies fringe and minority opinions as if it is a reflection of real life.

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          I mean come on this is like saying “there’s toxicity in my league of legends chat!”. that’s the whole point, especially with musk at the top.

          if it’s affecting you this much where you are developing these incel thought patterns you should get off the app.

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            First stop being a sex-obsessed creep. Imagine saying you don’t get to have opinions because you didn’t have sex.

            You’re part of the problem. Invalidation is also a common demonization tactic.

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              where did I say that? I’m not trying to invalidate anything I’m just saying that those apps are well known echo chamber for those thought patterns. little weird to just bring up having sex like that, it’s kinda exactly what I’m talking about.

              seriously though. if you have these thought patterns you should take one hell of a look in the mirror. I almost went down that path as a teen and it is ugly and harmful. there’s still time to change.

              women aren’t out to get you. these things talked about online like height and looks mean nothing in the real world. that’s not an exaggeration, it really is more about your personality, so I suggest you try to understand why yours seems unlikable.

              this isn’t a personal dig, as I said I almost went down that same path in highschool and I’m very glad I got out of it while I could.

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              You’ve literally made that up. The comment you responded to didn’t say that.

              It’s your lie, tell it how you want I guess… Why are you punishing yourself by believing in such terrible ‘opinions’ from others? Especially online, you literally can’t verify who’s human anymore. You could be getting upset with someone purposely creating rage bait. Opinions are like assholes mate. Bullies only bully to pull a reaction. They’re getting it with you, why let them do this to you?

              I’ve never met a woman who only focused on men’s looks. Never. Looks for many women come after personality. Confidence sans arrogance wins that race mostly.

              You appear not to have peace inside, just making shit up…you don’t have to live life with such dark outlook. In fact, you may be creating a self fulfilling prophecy in doing shit like this.

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                Explain what incel means, it’s literally a gender equivalent of the N-word.

                You don’t get to have opinions cuz I deemed you as an incel

                You are going around labelling people’s opinion as invalid, because YOU said so, a common bullying tactic. Also women go for status.

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                  equating to a self-describing virgin/celibate is equal to calling someone an N word, thats not even close and not even the same thing at all. i tell you why, incel is a name that men describe themselves, given to themselves. they wernt persecuted or targeted by a group and given deragatory name, incels literally named themselves that way. thats why fatphobia isnt a thing either.

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                    13 hours ago

                    & it is used to invalidate their opinions. This entire comment section is proof of it. Other comments have pointed it out.