When you’re single… Be single. Date multiple people until there is mutual interest in something more.
Think about what you want out of life. Non relationship wise. Where do you want to live? Who do you want to be? What kind of things do you want to do regularly? What do you want to achieve? What does it take for you to be like happy? Be intentional. Think about what it might take for someone to complement that. What kind of temperament? What kind of activities should this person enjoy?
Life should be whatever way you see it and you need to find someone who gets that.
When you date a bunch of people, you get a sense of what it actually takes for you to be happy hanging out with someone all the time. What kind of partners take your energy away? What kind of partners give you energy?
I will say, dating IS a skill. You can learn how to do it better. Everyone is working with something different and so obviously it will be harder for some people. That’s life, but you can always learn different ways to be more effective at dating. And by trying to date a bunch, you can iron out the kinks in your strategy. The fact is it is a game, and you gotta play to learn how to play better.
When you’re single… Be single. Date multiple people until there is mutual interest in something more.
Think about what you want out of life. Non relationship wise. Where do you want to live? Who do you want to be? What kind of things do you want to do regularly? What do you want to achieve? What does it take for you to be like happy? Be intentional. Think about what it might take for someone to complement that. What kind of temperament? What kind of activities should this person enjoy?
Life should be whatever way you see it and you need to find someone who gets that.
When you date a bunch of people, you get a sense of what it actually takes for you to be happy hanging out with someone all the time. What kind of partners take your energy away? What kind of partners give you energy?
I will say, dating IS a skill. You can learn how to do it better. Everyone is working with something different and so obviously it will be harder for some people. That’s life, but you can always learn different ways to be more effective at dating. And by trying to date a bunch, you can iron out the kinks in your strategy. The fact is it is a game, and you gotta play to learn how to play better.