• FourWaveforms@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    after you get through all the asking each other stuff to get to know each other’s histories etc phase, it’s okay to just not talk all the time

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      2 days ago

      It’s not just histories and facts, though. Sure, you don’t have to talk all the time, but sharing feelings and connection, in a relaxing way, through small talk, helps maintain and build that connection. More important for some people than others.