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minus-squaredwindling7373@feddit.itlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months agoWhy not release just his threats?
minus-squareWarl0k3@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·edit-23 months agoIn that situation you’re still admitting the threats have power over you; by releasing the photos yourself, you both out the person as fucking scum and demonstrate that their threat was completely impotent, delivering a one-two punch to the ego.
minus-squareGuilvareux@feddit.uklinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoStill doesn’t stop them being used against you. If they’re published by “choice” I think that’s easier on the soul, if still painful.
minus-squaret_berium@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 months agoI don’t get it, either. It’s like being threatened to get shot and releasing the threat and shooting yourself.
minus-squareKarjalan@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoThat analogy only works if your nudes being out there hurts or at least bothers you. Maybe she doesn’t care or planned to do it herself someday? You take away all the power if you follow through with releasing them yourself.
Why not release just his threats?
In that situation you’re still admitting the threats have power over you; by releasing the photos yourself, you both out the person as fucking scum and demonstrate that their threat was completely impotent, delivering a one-two punch to the ego.
Still doesn’t stop them being used against you. If they’re published by “choice” I think that’s easier on the soul, if still painful.
I don’t get it, either. It’s like being threatened to get shot and releasing the threat and shooting yourself.
That analogy only works if your nudes being out there hurts or at least bothers you. Maybe she doesn’t care or planned to do it herself someday?
You take away all the power if you follow through with releasing them yourself.