I’d argue that people are not obligated to learn

I mean technically being selfish isn’t illegal… Still better for everyone if they aren’t, though 🤷

If they don’t want to learn what you need to be happy with them, leave them.

Except for the fact that the next one along is gonna get bad sex too. A lover is like a public park: when you’re done using it, the polite thing is to leave it as good or better than when you arrived.

Don’t push them to do something they don’t want to do.

Unlike the OP, I’m advocating for constructive criticism and pointers. That’s not pushing. That’s nudging at most.

There’s no reason to be hostile about it.

If you think giving helpful advice on how you can better please someone in bed, in stead of pretending that they’re already a champion, is hostile behavior, that’s a YOU problem…

Yeah, there was a distinct danger of being too wholesome and helpful for a shitpost community for sure! 😄

I quit drinking myself 5 years ago as of last month, but since I have some good nonalcoholic beer right here, I’ll drink to all of that! 🍻

Freudian slip? But hey if that’s what you’re into then good for you 😉

Actually a happy autocomplete accident, but yeah, gonna leave it as is because you made it fun 😄

Otherwise? Yeah, come on, don’t settle for shit sex, if you can teach your partner to be better then why not? Don’t be too afraid to say something.

With you in principle and updooted you, but:

That one was A) a joke and B) a joke about shaming those unwilling to learn for not being willing to learn. Not about shaming them into being better in any way. What do you think I am, a Catholic parent?

I bet that used to be possible until they got a lot of complaints 😁

Or rather: don’t fake orgasms, make sure he knows if there’s something he can do better.

Constrictive criticism and pointers is how we get better, especially at doing the things YOU specifically like.

If he can’t roll with that, though, kick his ass to the curb. Maybe point and laugh at his weird penis first 😛

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What’s taters, precious?

Yeah, thanks for pointing that out 😄

Fixed

Yup. It’s one of the least representative and most corrupt so-called modern democracies in the world.

Because the center right to right wing Dem leadership simultaneously ignore the wishes of the Left and take them for granted, offering them little to nothing in the way of improvements to the atrocious status quo.

Give people something to vote FOR, instead of only a greater evil to vote AGAINST, and you’ll get much higher voter turnout.

For example, another received wisdom is “young people don’t vote” and guess what? When they were given the chance to vote for their bodily autonomy in Kansas, young women voted at a higher rate than men of any age combined.

The last time the Dems campaigned on going further left, 2008, was their biggest win in decades. When Obama then governed further to the right and campaigned for reelection accordingly, he won by a MUCH smaller margin.

Obsessed with a mother figure, destiny controlled by a higher authority which withholds the full picture, and he literally kink-shamed himself to death.

Oedipus was the quintessential Catholic before Catholicism existed.

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You really plumbed the depths of your knowledge for that tidbit 😁

Psy ai ai!

There’s also this dude

Still a more democratic system than the US one 🤷