Used to doubt myself so much. Impaired by the thought of making a mistake or looking like an idiot.
Now I hop.
When you’re 20, you care what everyone thinks of you
When you’re 40, you don’t care what anyone thinks of you
When you’re 60, you realize no one was thinking about you the whole time.
This can be crippling or freeing.
Depends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
To (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss:
“The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
Nice. Now do it verbatim.
Oh humans aren’t a monolith.
It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.
I like this a lot
I was always weird
But now I’m good at it
Tingle origin story
I’m 42 and I can fully get behind this.