Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day agoMe in my 40sslrpnk.netexternal-linkmessage-square9fedilinkarrow-up1347arrow-down13file-text
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Used to doubt myself so much. Impaired by the thought of making a mistake or looking like an idiot. Now I hop.
minus-squarefoggy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up27·1 day ago When you’re 20, you care what everyone thinks of you When you’re 40, you don’t care what anyone thinks of you When you’re 60, you realize no one was thinking about you the whole time. This can be crippling or freeing.
minus-squareCarnelian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up12·24 hours agoDepends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
minus-squaretrashcan@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 hours agoI know someone’s already covered this, but seriously: their opinions don’t matter
minus-squareBroadfern@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·22 hours agoTo (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss: “The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
minus-squarefoggy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·24 hours agoOh humans aren’t a monolith. It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.
This can be crippling or freeing.
Depends tbh I’ve definitely known some seriously gossipy people who clearly spend a ton of time thinking about others
I know someone’s already covered this, but seriously: their opinions don’t matter
To (vaguely) quote Dr. Seuss:
“The people who mind, don’t matter and the people who matter, don’t mind.”
Nice. Now do it verbatim.
Oh humans aren’t a monolith.
It’s a rule of thumb, and OP is right on track.