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    Though the age difference is true, she didn’t meet her husband until 2022, not in 2003 as this meme suggests. She was 25 when she met him, not 5.

    I won’t judge any adult who decides to want to spend their lives with another adult, no matter the age. Doing so would make me little better than them. The woman is a horrible excuse for a human being and should spend a good amount of time in jail, but this thing isn’t an issue for me. It’s not even related to Epstein as again, she was an adult when she met her now husband

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      Though the age difference is true, she didn’t meet her husband until 2022, not in 2003 as this meme suggests. She was 25 when she met him, not 5.

      The meme is saying she was 5 when Trump wrote the birthday card to Epstein. Not that she was 5 when she met her husband.

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      I will judge the fuck out of huge age gaps all I want. I am almost fifty years old and I have never seen a healthy relationship, just transactional ones, with this type of gap.

      Almost always men with privilege that have shit personalities getting with girls they can control.

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        I’m 37 and I volunteer with kids around 5/6yo. The idea of marrying and reproducing with one of them when I’m 60 is fucking gross.

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        I had a relationship with a girl 13 years younger. I didn’t find her, she found me. We had 6 years together when I broke up, she begged me not to leave. While we were together we were completely happy, no abuse, and you know, she was an adult who is allowed to make her own fucking decisions without Karen’s like you judging her for what SHE wants

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          You were the older and more mature (actually, maybe not) person. You could have told her no and you ended up dumping her anyways. You have now been correctly judged.

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            Are you a right wing or left wing extremist, I honestly can’t see.

            Seriously, you could be a Christian extremist or you could be one of those wannabe warriors for political correctness, it’s the same picture

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              Are you a complete shit manosphere asshole or just a lying edgelord, I honestly know the answer.

              Seriously, you could be be a woman hater or you could just be one of those loser misogynists. I have no fucking clue because all these pictures look the same to me.

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        i had a co-worker, in a former job that she was dating someone 17years her senior, she was only 28-29 at the time. the mom of course was pissed, because she said he was almost as old as she is. i thought it was wierd too, but being her friend at the time, she also had things going at home too, asian family.(i felt she would be better off moving out and living witht he 40+ something, than with her control freak mom.

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          Its not a binary choice though, given there are millions of partner options out there for a 28yo lady. Its not just option a) 46 year old man, option b) stay at crappy home situation. Both situations can be crap at once, sounds like she just went from one power imbalance to another.

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          I could see her wanting to escape a situation like that. Her mom had a point though. I wouldn’t date someone who was my child’s age, but that is just me.

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      you do realize what your saying right,? ALot of people are groomed to marry/sexual relationship with a man that is double or even triple thier age, before they become adults.

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        before they become adults

        Met her husband in 2022, when she was 25

        You do realize what you’re saying, right?

        1. That you can’t read

        2. That you don’t want to allow adults to make decisions for themselves

        3. You make me stand up and defend this shit stain excuse for a human bean, please don’t do that.