Dig this big crux.

  • CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world
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    Here’s the thing though. When THEY need it, it’s ok. They’ll just pop over to the next state and nobody back home will ever know. They have absolutely no problem being hypocrites in any aspect of their lives.

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    Liberals still having trouble conceptualising that MAGA is a death cult that has no issue with policies that kill everyone.

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      A study did show before that people from either political side fundamentally don’t understand each other, which leaves both sides stereotyping each other and polarisation.

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      My conservative grandma who votes R every time because of abortion had an abortion for an ectopic pregnancy. When my mother was pregnant with me at fifteen, she offered her an abortion.

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          She would never acknowledge the fact that she wanted me aborted, so it’s not something I’ve heard justified. This is a family tree defined by sexual violence, so there are a lot of topics which exist in that liminal space.

          Republican women live in a world that is governed by fear and control. Abortion being an option removes that aspect of fear. There is something in it that works the same way a “kink” does, that if one follows the rules and takes the hurt, everything works out in the end. Why would you take out the hurt/is it actually a feasible option to take out the hurt?

          But to actually answer your question, asking her the question would just not get a response.

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      I’ve read that conservatives model the world as “strict rules that have exceptions made on a case by case basis”. That maybe works if you’re in a small village. Smarter people realize that doesn’t scale and you should write better rules in the first place.

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        Oh but it does scale: Abortions are forbidden with the following exceptions:

        • The carrying mother requests one.
        • The carrying mother is in no condition to express her will and her pregnancy puts her life in danger, in which case we can refer to consent forms she would have already filled covering such cases, doctors and her family).
  • Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    My wife literally had to have all three of those while we were trying to have our twins. She had a double whammy of a rogue ectopic they couldn’t find on scans and an empty gestational sac in the uterus that wouldn’t pass. They knew there had to be an ectopic somewhere because her hCG levels weren’t tracking with what they should be with what they could see on the scans.

    So the Catholic hospital we were at gave her multiple courses of methotrexate to make sure they got the ectopic. Multiple scripts for I believe it was Misoprostol to try to pass the miscarriage. But when that didn’t work and she showed up to a monitoring appointment with signs of sepsis, they immediately took her in for emergency surgery to remove it.

    Then when we finally got our twins we had to do a late term selective termination because the pregnancy was originally quads, one died early enough to be reabsorbed but was conjoined at the umbilical cord to her twin. That twin had a massive stroke during some crucial brain development weeks and we found out at 20 weeks that she had basically no brain and her constant seizures were actively killing the other two and might even cause her to lose the entire pregnancy.

    Literally the only option to save the two healthy twins was to terminate that triplet. Abortion is literally the only reason my twins are alive today.

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    Any termination of pregnanacy before the 20th week is considered an abortion btw. So if you were to miscarry it would be considered an abortion, take that as you will.

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    US maternal mortality rate:

    2016: 17 women per 100,000 births

    2024: 19 women per 100,000 births

    That is an 11% increase and higher than any year in the 2000-2019 timeframe.

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    Oh, here’s the other time abortion is acceptable to Republican women: when they (or their daughters) fuck some guy that they shouldn’t (for whatever reason) and then get pregnant.

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    You underestimate how crazy fundamentalists are. For them, it’s worth dying if it saves the fetus, because for them a fetus is a living and breathing child.

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    Doesn’t affect them until it directly affects them. They won’t support it until it directly affects them. Because it never affects enough of them at once, nothing ever changes.

    Fermi’s Paradox was staring us in the face the whole time.

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    “I thought they’d make an exception for my abortion” sobs woman who voted for the Women Dying of Pregnancy Complications Party.

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      The absolute raging short circuit they go into when my wife and I tell conservatives that while trying for a baby she not only had to have multiple abortions to keep an ectopic pregnancy and sepsis from a miscarriage from killing her, but that we had to terminate our twins’ triplet because her constant seizures were actively killing the healthy twins and making it increasingly likely that we just lost the entire pregnancy are crazy.

      I’ve had people try to tell me that abortions like the ones listed in the OP aren’t actually abortion and abortion is only when the “sluts” terminate a baby they don’t want. I’ve had them try to tell me that they’re completely okay with situations like my wife and just want to stop the “sluts abusing it” and completely blue screening when I explain to them that the delay while they checked that my wife wasn’t a “slut abusing it” would have likely killed my twins.

      I can’t with these people man, I fucking can’t.

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          Or that whole “post-birth abortion” insanity. Which as I understand it came from a hypothetical about whether or not parents would be allowed to let a baby with severe deformities that couldn’t live without machines die of natural causes rather than subject them to painful and invasive surgeries. Like that’s a thing that’s happening all the time to perfectly healthy babies because some blue haired liberal didn’t want them.

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    The treatment for an unwanted pregnancy is abortion.

    People really dance around this issue, but we simply need to give women access to safe abortions for unwanted pregnancies.

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      No no, the compassionate approach is to force the women to bear the child, raise it in poverty and neglect if not outright constant abuse, wash out into the foster care system, grow up with no skills and fewer prospects, become homeless and then round them up and throw them in prison when they use drugs to cope with their shit lives. Just like Jesus wants, you baby murderer!

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    Won’t work on them unless they’re actually in the process of dying.

    Conservatives don’t care about being warned about things. They only care when those things happen directly to them and they have to actively deal with the consequences.

    Remember seeing some pristine examples of this during COVID. Conservatives in the process of dying in the hospital and then start begging for help.