So is the kink here just being tied up, or being tied up in that specific way? 🤔
Because I almost always see stuff with a very specific set of tied up positions. Like, it’s never just bound hands and feet. It’s always way more elaborate. I find being bound up, unable to move or act against someone doing what they please to be a turn on; but I wouldn’t care how I was bound. I’m now wondering if hibari or whatever it’s called has anything to even do with the being bound part, or if it’s more about the ropes and knots in and of themselves. Like latex vs inflation. One is about the material, the other just uses the material for another reason.
This type of bondage is called shibari, and it’s different in the way you described. Regular bondage is about restricted movement, maybe cuffs or topless around wrists and ankles.
Shibari is a Japanese form of rope bondage, it is a very slow and methodical approach, where the person being bound must (generally) submit quietly the whole time it’s being done.
The aesthetics of the binding are important, it should look good, and also should work with the mechanics of the body.
It can be used as a pleasant and beautiful decoration on top of clothing, as here, or can use the mechanics of the body to bind in such a way that the body’s own movements cause stress.
Wanted to know the source of the right image, for reasons, and it’s from this website that “teaches rope bondage, shibari and other rope-related BDSM skills”:
I’m not gonna get anyones hopes up like I did mine about good content there, the website is self described as “Our focus is on education, not titillation, so this is a safe place to learn techniques without distracting sexual images.”
Yeah it’s actually nice there’s no porn on it. It’s all skill
Visiting this site means that you agree to be bound by the Terms & Conditions
Heh
Consider me distracted, Ts&Cs
Hey thank you for posting that. I know it’s not what you wanted but I am looking for safe resources and this is what I need
(I’m trying to heal from some trauma and ngl seeing it at first was a bit triggering but I feel better after reading that description. So thank you sincerely)
I got really into shibari at one point and it’s really not necessarily about titillating. It’s really quite cool and when you’re doing it you almost can’t think about sex. Too focused on nerve points and the knots.
How do nerve points come into the picture
You reaaaaalllly do not want to compress the wrong nerve for too long.
This, for the person doing the binding, there should be constant focus and attention as binding in the wrong way can cause nerve damage.
It’s… Less sexy and more… Satisfaction with creating art, especially of turning your property (sub) into art - amplifying their objectification.
Final form.
Ah, the ol’ David Carradine
He came as he went
I’m sorry what
HE EJACULATED WHILE HE WAS DYING.
Wanking with a bag on yer head tied to a door
That bloke from INXS he knew the score
There’s no loop on the top of any of those controllers. Long term, that’s going to stress the connection.
Probably not great for long term titty support, either.
My god those are some mf forty-five fifty-fives, Jesus Christ. Fake looking, but still, bruh.
I just zoomed in on the controllers trying to see how you could tell they were counterfeit.
lol
Sometimes you just gotta put your thumbs on em like they’re dualshock sticks, know what I’m saying. Control them mfs
Is that the Wii Fit trainer on the right?
I’m hoping it’ll Fit, for sure.
Image on the right is me after wearing corded headphones.
'sup
Hehe, I know those blue gloves.
I do love making a good flower weave and I did used to do exactly that with my N64 controllers…
waant
Middle is just using the n64 wire on yourself instead of proper rope.
